Appreciating the Effort

One of the ways to ensure that the other party is not taken for granted is to make the conscious effort to appreciate even the smallest things.
I’ve come to realise that what is always being neglected is the appreciation of the effort.
If he went out of his way to try to get a bouquet of [...]

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Trust

I had my trust shattered again recently. As if it weren’t shattered enough, it had to be stomped onto again.
Once bitten twice shy. But I knew that if I really wanted the relationship to work out, I had to learn to trust again. After a long and hard struggle, I finally did. Only to learn, [...]

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Scars

“幸福的开始就是放手去爱”
I’m learning to let go of all the scars from the past. To love freely and fearlessly.
A tall order for me. But I will still try.

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Truth

What is the truth?
It is the true and actual state of a matter. Being exact, precise and accurate.
That means that if you were to miss out a few information here and there, it wouldn’t be the truth because it isn’t the exact, precise, accurate and actual state of a matter. It is only a portion [...]

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Timing

 Timing plays a big role in things.  Even more so when it comes to love.
 Have you ever wondered… what if you met her earlier? What if you didn’t have to go abroad for your studies/training? What if you made a move earlier? What if ….
Things might have been different, wouldn’t it?
Some people call this fate. I call [...]

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The Do-s in relationships

 Something i found from a friend’s friend’s blog.
There are four important similarities among relationships in which the people are satisfied:
1. The ability to talk openly.
2. Respect. “Don’t try to bend the other person to see things through your eyes,” says Cole.
3. A sense of humor.
4. The ability to work as a team, utilizing each other’s [...]

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Relationships

Found this in a friend’s blog…
I believe that in a relationship, in order for it to last, is to be the best of friends with one another, respect one another, give each other space to breath, to be understanding towards each other feelings and mutual trust and never betray.
how true….

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relationships…

 they become simpler yet more complicated as we grow older.

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“Do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you”

This once made perfect sense to me. It still does. but i realised that, well, it doesnt always work.
Man are from Mars and Woman are from Venus. What Mars do not want done unto him might not be what Venus do not want done unto he and vice versa. Also, what Mars wants does not [...]

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